Memo to Bridie Flynn [Terence Winch]
[Note: this post first appeared on the now defunct Best American Poetry blog on 9 May 2010. It is revised and updated here.] My mother's name was Bridget Flynn. One of eleven children, she was born just outside of the town of Loughrea, in county Galway, Ireland, on 23 November 1906. Eight of her siblings stayed in Ireland, so I have many cousins there. The house (greatly modernized) and land are still in the family, owned by my cousin Martin Flynn, with whom I am close. My mother immigrated to New York sometime in the early 1920s. She married my father, Patrick Winch, in 1930. I am the youngest of their five children. Known as Bridie, my mother died of breast cancer on 14 January 1962, at age 55, after a long illness. I was 16 at the time, and took her death very hard. In many ways that loss has marked me for life, and its aftermath has certainly had an impact on my writing. I had forgotten about the poem included here, which was written in 2005 and never before published....